Let's Get Social NOT on Social Media

I want to set a couple goals. I’d like to do something DAILY that is out of my comfort zone. I want to be more social and outgoing when I’m out and about. I want to pay attention to others instead of just focusing on what I need to get done. I’m generally a pretty social person. But what you don’t use you lose! Being a mom of 4 small children makes it easy to just stay home and work on the millions of things on my “to do” list.

Many of us, including myself, have gotten so comfortable communicating through a key board and we’ve become a little socially awkward. Don’t get me wrong, I love Facebook and Instagram. But lets keep the real life communication alive. Let’s type less and TALK more! Let’s get social, NOT on social media. So I want to get out more. Get back to my high school roots. I was a social butterfly back then and my mom could NOT keep me home. I always wanted to be out among people.

Reasons why I feel it is important to be social:

#1. We NEED people. We all have the deep desire within us to have relationships, connect with others, to love and to be loved.

#2. People need YOU!!! God has made us all unique with different gifts and talents that were meant to be shared. Maybe your gift is the gift of compassion, or understanding. Or maybe you’re a good listener. Maybe you have a story that other people need to hear. Perhaps what you say or do is an answer to someone’s prayer. I believe that most answers to prayers come through another individual. So how can we BE an answer to someone’s prayer if we are never around?

#3. It gives us PURPOSE. For the two reasons above, being social gives us purpose. We can wake up each day with the attitude, “who can I serve today?” Sharing a piece of ourselves with others is the way to true joy and fulfillment in life.

A few weeks ago I learned of this amazing new platform called Periscope. It’s a way to share messages via live video streaming. Another thing I’m not so comfortable with, is speaking in front of people. We all know that things get easier with repetition. So I feel like doing a Periscope video each day will help me overcome that fear, and to share the messages in my heart. It’s much easier to NOT blog and periscope, but that is not going to help me grow. Also, I will be missing out on the opportunity to share my story and gifts with others.

Ultimately my goal is to become the best version of me. And that won’t happen if I’m not pushing myself to do uncomfortable things.

So I want to challenge everyone to do this with me. This isn’t about ME, it’s about US. Lets do something uncomfortable every day!

I’d love to watch YOUR videos on Periscope, so please let me know if you are doing videos of your own so that I can be sure to follow you. This way I will be notified when you are live.