It’s taken me a long time to begin trusting
again. For a while there I began to believe that EVERYONE was using manipulation tactics in some way to get what THEY want.
But I had to ask myself, does NOT trusting others feel good to my soul?
I decided to get clear on what a cult is and how to avoid getting sucked into any more mind control.
I decided to ONLY trust and take in information that teaches ME how to find truth, not those who claim THEY have the truth and are using FEAR to keep me from fully experiencing MY life.
In this episode I discuss in detail the confusion I experienced when first leaving the church and how I’m beginning to trust again.
In this episode I’m talking about how I’m learning to trust again, also getting really clear on the definition of a cult.
{Below list taken from the International Cultic Studies Association}
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- The group displays excessively zealous and unquestioning commitment to its leader and (whether he is alive or dead) regards his belief system, ideology, and practices as the Truth, as law.
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- Questioning, doubt, and dissent are discouraged or even punished.
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- Mind-altering practices (such as meditation, chanting, speaking in tongues, denunciation sessions, and debilitating work routines) are used in excess and serve to suppress doubts about the group and its leader(s).
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- The leadership dictates, sometimes in great detail, how members should think, act, and feel (for example, members must get permission to date, change jobs, marry—or leaders prescribe what types of clothes to wear, where to live, whether or not to have children, how to discipline children, and so forth).
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- The group is elitist, claiming a special, exalted status for itself, its leader(s), and its members (for example, the leader is considered the Messiah, a special being, an avatar—or the group and/or the leader is on a special mission to save humanity).
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- The group has a polarized us-versus-them mentality, which may cause conflict with the wider society.
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- The leader is not accountable to any authorities (unlike, for example, teachers, military commanders or ministers, priests, monks, and rabbis of mainstream religious denominations).
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- The group teaches or implies that its supposedly exalted ends justify whatever means it deems necessary. This may result in members’ participating in behaviors or activities they would have considered reprehensible or unethical before they joined the group (for example, lying to family or friends, or collecting money for bogus charities).
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- The leadership induces feelings of shame and/or guilt in order to influence and/or control members. Often, this is done through peer pressure and subtle forms of persuasion.
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- Subservience to the leader or group requires members to cut ties with family and friends, and to radically alter the personal goals and activities they had before they joined the group.
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- The group is preoccupied with bringing in new members.
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- The group is preoccupied with making money.
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- Members are expected to devote inordinate amounts of time to the group and group-related activities.
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- Members are encouraged or required to live and/or socialize only with other group members.
- The most loyal members (the “true believers”) feel there can be no life outside the context of the group. They believe there is no other way to be and often fear reprisals to themselves or others if they leave (or even consider leaving) the group.
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